Today, I am grateful for finding and playing games with my kids. Jenga was the choice last night and next time it will be Sorry! or Uno. I dominated Dayterbug in Jenga. I beat him all three of our games. I enjoy this time because we talk crap to each other throughout to try and distract. We make up rules throughout to make it a little harder for the other person. I will not try to lose any game against my kids because I know that they will not do the same for me when I get older. No mercy :)
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Today, I am grateful for going to my daughter's track meet and being outside at the end of the day. When I lived in South Dakota and taught middle school, I was also a high school boys basketball coach and middle school track coach. Basketball is my favorite sport to play, coach and watch. Track is my favorite sport to coach because it was nice to be outside, weather permitting, and offer strategies and technical work for young people to think about as they are competing to help them perform better. Even though you are racing or jumping or throwing against other people at the track meet, the real competition is with yourself and improving what you can do. After you do that, you can see where you stand with the other people who did the event with you. It is a mindset to be in competition with yourself to do the best you can do and not judge your performance based on what everyone else did. Do not get me wrong, there is a meet at the end of the There was the organize chaos of the picture but having the athletes pay attention for the calls for their events and then having them show up and perform was cool. This time I was in the stands watching my daughter run the 400m. Probably the hardest race because it is suppose to be a sprint and 400m is a long time to sprint. She did awesome. Kayleah got a PR, personal record. I need to get outside more. I need to get active so that I can run a 400. Today, I am grateful for spending time with my son. In the car on the way to the theater, Dayt says, "Dad, let's plan what snacks we are going to get." I love him with all my heart. Popcorn, duh. Sodas. And M&Ms. I love hearing my son giggle and make laugh at things that he sees and hears. Super Mario Bros was a cool reminder of the characters and games that I have spent hours playing through as I grew up and now my son gets to exerience the joy that these things brought me. I enjoy going to the movies because it feels like an unreal experience. The enormous screen with the loudness of the speakers transporting us to the different worlds. My son was all bubbly and excited to doing something that was out of our routine. I will continue to find things my son enjoys and do them with him to hear is joy! Today, I am grateful for being selected as the AEA representative in a three-year program called Leaders for Just Schools through NEA, National Education Association! Saturday, we had our virtual kick-off of the program that took us through the history of NEA and it Racial Justice path. I was interested in the learning of the 1966 merger between NEA and the American Teachers Association (ATA), an organization that was representing teachers of color during the time of legal segregation. Jim Crow, legal segregation, racism is not history, it is our present. We can feel it around us. Everywhere. We have many organizations that we know that found their beginnings during this time. Many of the laws that we know are meant to protect people against discrimination found their legal beginnings during the '50s-'60s-'70s and we are experiencing those laws trying to be weakened and replaced or ignored today. I am proud to be a member of an organization that says the following statements that were at the beginning of the training on implicit bias and stereotyping.
I am proud and grateful to be selected to represent Arizona Eduction Association and Tempe Secondary Education Association. I have a lot of learning to do to be an ally and co-conspirator and I want to use my privilege to play a role in fostering and growing our communities that benefit everyone and all of us win. "Never forget that Justice is what love looks like in public." - Cornel West Today, I am grateful to hang out with good friends and get whooped by the youngest person in this photo in Yahtzee. Having opportunities to hang with colleagues outside of the school setting is refreshing. Laughing together. Sharing food. Playing a game that brings joy, more so to the winner. The afternoon started on a downer with finding out the Book Fair had closed for a couple hours before the evening event. I thought we would go and get some food and hang out for a bit and then make our way back so Dayt could buy some books but we were having too much fun. I went to the bathroom and on the way back I saw the stack of games and Yahtzee is my all-time favorite game to play. I have many memories playing with my son, my brother, and my father late at night through the holidays and then during the summer. Dayt scored a 424 with three Yahtzees and the rest of us had zero. We got whooped. 424 is a great score but it is not even Dayt's best in his career, that is the 477 he rolled last Christmas. He got 2nd that game behind my 591! I can't find the picture of what my father rolled that game because he was right there too. We had nine Yahtzees rolled. I had 4. Dayt had 3. My father had 2. Just wild! This was fun! Today, I am grateful for picking up my daughter from volleyball practice and having dinner with her. Trinity Grace brings a smile to heart. I love her sense of humor and how she explains the world and how she is experiencing it. She was looking dope with my Suns gear. We went to Four Peaks and had nachos and garlic cheese beer bread. Delicious. I love when I am able to spend time with Trin because usually when I text, I get one or two word responses. When I call, it is quick. She says she does not like to text or talk on the phone. We laughed that this really limits how we communicate to just when we are in the same room together. I love her. Going through my divorce the hardest part has been that I am not around all the time. I am at the events. I am at the games. But being around in the in-between hours where I can throw a pillow that her or her sister and see what they are doing and talk about what they are doing or thinking or wanting to do. I love spending time with Trinity Grace and I am looking forward to the next time. It better be soon! Love you Trinity Grace!* *Trin was not impressed with me for sharing this photo :) Today, I am grateful for a friend who makes me smile, Mr. Otto. He was responsible for getting some muffins for our Staff breakfast for Friday and he had an event and I was fortunate to experience his event through voice to text messages and a phone call. If you have not ever received a voice to text message from Otto you are missing out. It is an adventure. This time though they were coming in so fast that I had to read backwards because the messages were disappearing from my screen too fast. lol. Muffins were found BUT it was a super interesting hour. Reading the messages outloud the next morning got him all worked up again. lol. I am grateful for my friends but I ain't reading all that! Today, I am grateful and excited about fishing this summer as I travel. You can see this giant fish that took hours to reel in. I was exhausted. I want to catch some fish in the rivers and lakes that I travel to throughout this summer and then prepare them over a fire and eat them! I am excited! I have never did this process on my own but I want to! Summer is almost here! Today, I am grateful to have a buddy, Jason, that likes to golf and invited me to go out after school. Golf is fun. So freaking hard but fun. Every shot is different. Different lies for the ball. Different levels for where your feet are. Super hard. Then having a buddy who will say something if the shot goes somewhere it's not suppose to, is fun. Getting out in the sunshine is fun. Hitting my driver and having the ball actually go where I want it to go is fun. Making a long putt is fun. Today, I am grateful to get out on the golf course and having opportunties to hang with buddies. Today, I am grateful for making travel plans for this summer! I know where I am going but I do not know how I am going to get there or how long it will take. I am planning on taking my son to Idaho to see my sister's family. I am planning on going to South Dakota to see my parents and sisters and brother and their families. I do know I want to see the beautiful land that I see in pictures and videos and it gets me excited that my son will be able to experience these places with me. My girls have to go to their dads in South Dakota so they will have to fly to be able to have that time with him and his family. I have tentatively started to have conversations with people about what there is to visit and experience throughout the west coast on my way to Idaho. I do not just want to get on the interstate and fly by all this beauty. The destination is not the journey. I want to be present and soak it all in. Oh, and this will not be expensive or I guess a better way to say it is that I will do my best to make this as cheap as possible. Tenting. Filling a cooler with food. Eating clean. Hiking. Free activities. Fishing. I cannot wait to see what this looks like. |
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